Everyone who uses escorts, had to at some point, have a first time. Like allot of other first times, this can be a bit daunting and all sorts of fears and misconceptions can creep in.
But to be reading this article, you must pretty interested and ready to take the next step, and hopefully this guide will give you a good insight and help ease some of those nerves.
Escorting is not prostitution and anything that you both decide will happen outside of your date, is both to your own discretion.
Escorts are ladies, and sometimes men, who offer their time to a client to date. People will often seek out an escort for many reasons, but remember that an escort is a person and does what they do because they enjoy the company of the person they are with, so therefore need to be treated with the respect to make your time together enjoyable and insure both parties are satisfied.
It is always a good start to use a reputable escort agency as opposed to independent escorts. The ladies that work for the agencies will have reviews and have better accommodation should you be travelling to meet them. It is not uncommon for someone visiting an independent escort to arrive at a venue which is often unclean and unsafe, and while the the client is being entertained, other flatmates will go through personal belongings. It is better to look for quality rather than thinking you are getting a good deal with a cheaper un-vetted escort.
The internet is a great place to find escort agencies. Also look in the adult Guide To London for more reputable agencies. Once you find an escort agency, you can often look on-line at the different women and you will be able to read lots of reviews and see photos. There are many different women who work for agencies, so if you have a specific taste in lady, you are almost certain to find someone who you find attractive near where you are.
Calling the agency for the first time can be a big hurdle, but rest assured that the people on the other end of the phone, only want to help and make your experience the best it can be and will be non judgemental and pleased to hear from you. So be clear about what you want, ask questions about the accommodation, parking and bathroom facilities. Usually the ladies will live not too far from public transport in a clean safe environment, but make sure its in an area you are comfortable with.
Also, and I think most importantly, agree everything beforehand. Cost, what you would like to do, or any special requests like certain clothes you like a lady to wear, or no perfume etc. Make sure that if you are taking a lady out to dinner or to a party, that it is ok, and give details about where you will be going. This saves embarrassment for yourself and for the lady you agree to meet and also keeps both of you safe.
Paying for a ladies time can be the most awkward part for the client, so agree a payment method and price early on. Some companies accept cards, but most people will prefer to pay cash. Also be sure as to when to pay.
As ladies love to be treated like ladies, make sure that if you want to buy gifts or flowers, that it is OK with the escort as some of the ladies may for some reason want to practice discretion due to their own lifestyles, or some may just be happy with a kind tip.
Lastly, make sure your clean before meeting your date. If you are coming from work or such like, check to see if its ok to use the facilities at the place your visiting. Your date will clean and fresh and will always appreciate the same from the person she is meeting.